You know you're in "deep" when....

    I use that statement quite often.. seems in the "car world", there are a number of different levels of being an "enthusiast". Some of us like to simply shine up our daily driver, personalize it a bit, make it our own. Then on the other spectrum, there are people like myself. We are the "sick" ones that let our "hobby" take over our life. After recently finishing 2 major projects (and forfeiting a personal life outside the garage), I came up with this list below to use as a way to check if you really are in "way-deep". This could possibly be a eye opener to allow you to take a step back and possibly "back off" a little (AKA save you marriage :p ), or possibly serve as a way to console yourself that you aren't the only one and there are many others that have the same sickness as you! (Imagine an AA meeting for car-people). In that case.. Hi, my name is Matt, and I am in "way-deep" with old cars.

    I recently really came to this conclusion about myself. I was finishing up a restoration on a set of vintage race wheels (full story to come later this month). You see, I went to further lengths than some people go to when doing engine swaps. Making these wheels fit and look "proper" on my daily driver Mercedes 190e was no quick, or easy feat. These wheel were the complete wrong offset, bolt pattern, etc for my car. This is overlooking the fact they were 20-25 year old race wheels that needed a full restoration! I went so far as to having custom wheel adapters machined to adapt the bolt pattern to my car and center caps machined from scratch to replace the original caps that were missing from the wheels (and made of "unobtanium"). Below are a couple neat photos of the caps being machined by a friend of mine... that was pretty much the defining moment for me, when I realized I am way, way in "deep".

    Here are my sure-fire ways to tell if you possibly have a problem with this sickness we call a "hobby". Feel free to comment or email with some of your "signs"!

    -You find yourself spending the majority of your spare money on your project or things related to the hobby.

    -You routinely break plans with family/significant other/friends to work in your garage on your project.

    -Greasy finger nails and  busted knuckles regardless of your "9-5" job.

    -When you aren't working on the project, you are talking about it... even if the person you are talking to has no idea what you are talking about.

    -You begin to sleep less and less in favor of late nights in the garage.

    -Skipping work to get a jump on a part or car you "HAD to have"

    -You find more and more of your clothing becoming "work clothes" without even realizing it.

    -You take more pictures and document more of your project than you do of your own family.

    -Mandatory family events and trips you try and work out a way to insert something relating to the hobby. (For me I've been known to search the local craigslist ads for areas where I will be traveling through)

    -etc.!!

    Don't forget to take a break once in a while and spend some quality time with the family, and keep the peace. Be happy that you have a understanding family/significant other, that puts up with you getting so far into it!

    Thanks for reading, I gotta get out in the garage and work on my next obsession... I mean "project".

    -Matt

    4 thoughts on “You know you're in "deep" when....”

    • Charlie Fisher
      Charlie Fisher July 12, 2010 at 11:16 am

      Matt, I don't think I'm obssesed with my projects thought I can relate. I have been building hotrods and working on cars for over 40 years. One was with your boss Curt. My present project is a 57 chevy 2 dr wagon. While working on that I picked up my next project a67 Nova.My last project was a 53 ford wagon. I work on them all day as I am retired I get my parts at sap meets new only if I have to.I make a lot of them. I do everything I can a few years ago I told myself to slow down I sold my lathe and Mill. Now that was DUMB. Anyway I love this hobby and My wife lets me have my fun she even gos to swap meets and finds parts I'm looking for. I guess I've rambled enough Have fun never give up. There is always a way
      Charlie Fisher

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      • MattM

        Charlie,

        Sounds like you may have indirectly added a good item to add to the list! "If you have your next project lined up before you are even finishing the next one, you may be "in deep". You are lucky man to have a wife that is so helpful and understanding! Keep up the good work!

        -Matt/EW

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    • Tom Drommond

      I've stopped buying tee shirts in any color other than black. I spend at least an hour every day going over ebay listings looking for parts. I bought a house because it had a second single car garage (man cave) and 200 amps of dedicated power. I installed an a/c unit, cable TV and Internet in the man cave. My 8-yr old son has over 1000 die cast cars and his own 1/24th scale car dealership with a service department and lifts. My son learned to read by studying car magazines, shop manuals and reference books (reads at a 5th grade level in 3rd grade). I met my wife by selling her a car. Oh, and I sell cars for a living, so I'm at my hobby even when I'm at work. Buddy, I'm in deeeeeep.

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      • MattM

        We sir, are on about the same level. I just need some young ones to get to that level! Keep on keepin' on!

        -Matt/EW

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